A New Start

I've been gone for a bit now and I think it's time to come back, not just with Orgasm Denial but with the blog as well. I've gotten distracted over the past year and almost started to lose faith. Recently I had started to think that it was impossible to really deny yourself and orgasm for an extended period of time but not only do I think it is extremely important to do so, I found a few ways to make it easier that I will share with you all in the upcoming weeks. It has to do with the art of being multi-orgasmic and achieving an orgasm WITHOUT cumming; this mostly works because an orgasm is in the brain and not in the penis. 

Reasons to Start Orgasm Denial


I've recently been jerking off a lot and one thing I immediately noticed, the loss of
motivation. Motivation to work, to go to the gym, to post here more often. You feel lazy and lose that 'edge' that makes people successful in life (and happy). The instant release from porn is just TOO good, you don't have to work for it, and it doesn't even FEEL satisfying. All in all, it's a waste of time, energy and isn't worth it. When you start to deny yourself, not only do you gain self-control, but it also feels MUCH better and leaves you with a sense of accomplishment.


Not only does it make you a bit sharper, it feels a lot better than jerking off and when you're having sex it feels much more special. Although it's hard to start and get into, once you get past the first few weeks it feels amazing almost like a constant low level orgasm for your penis. You feel powerful and in control and that's amazing as well. Although it's not always easy, it is worth it and you start to enjoy the pleasure of NOT orgasming as much as jerking off.
The longest I've gone is 28 days, and I plan to break that record and go to atleast 100 Days this summer. I'll post soon with details if you want to join me.


The 3 Best Ways to Keep your Oath

When all self-control fails, and one seems at the edge of orgasming, and breaking their oath, there needs to be safeguards to break the cycle, to shutdown and restart the system. I recommend at least 3, if not more. Again, these might be different for everyone, but these are my 3 examples:

 1) Technology

When using a magazine, or a book to mastrubate, its easy to close it, toss it away, or finish it before you cum. But, with the interent, there is always MORE. How do you deal with this? Close and toss away your laptop, hold the power button and shut it down. Turn it off before it can get to you. As your hand clutches your cock, move your other hand to the power button, and turn it off. Wash you face, cool down, and calm down for a second. Danger averted. 

 2) Environment

Be effecient. Use whatever space you have to pull yourself back to reality, and remind yourself of your oath. Print out your plan, and put it up on the wall. Pin your oath, or a picture of something to remind you of reality. A gross pitcture can also help, but only pull it when you are mastrubating. Have some ice around, and grab it when touching your penis to help it shrink, or stop altogether. I sometimes put a board on my chair between my arm rests. That way, I can't even get to my cock, and it lets me cool down quickly. 

 3) Clothing

I wear clothing when mastrubating to dull the sensitivity, and also so I can't grab my cock easily. I'll have to grind away at it for a while to cum, but when I'm horny, and in denial for a while, even that won't take too long. Have towels to hide your cock quickly while you stare at gross photos to bring yourself down. Remeber, you HAVE TO LIKE it. Enjoy the high of not cumming instead of WANTING to cum. Its here where the real sensations live, as you swim in your own horniness.

Some new pron sources...

Found some new sources, and though to share with you guys.

VOLO Magazine
Hentai( A bit iffy for me... but I like it from time to time.)

Update - Best Sites/People

It has been a while, but here is my new porn round trip. Again, BE CAREFUL, I don't want to be responsible for people breaking their orgasm denial periods. My challenge to you is to develop, and have a fool-proof, or effective exit-plan before trying these sources. Experiment with music, ice, light/dark, turning off your computer etc. Have Fun!


Angie Verano
Halle Diez

Amber Rayne (This chick is insane, and has an insatiable sexual desire, and deep throats like no other.) 
Jenni Lee

Managing the Internet

The internet is probably the biggest problem with Orgasm Denial. After all, where else would we get our porn, and urge to cum? From magazines, spouses, minds? No, the Internet, where porn is always lurking around. Here is how to thwart it. 


Everyone knows what turns him or her on, and some form of it is probably available on the internet. Pictures, Videos, Stories, GIFS, and so on... But, in most situations, a video will make you hornier than a picture, and a story will have a lower effect on your self. Judge how horny you are. Are you really ready for that 1-Hour Movie, or just gonna stick with some Chive ? Its a conscious choice that we make, and in the end, we control ourselves. Close to cumming? Think about the consequences of ending your orgasm denial, and crank up that music to distract yourself. Find your own way, and see what works. Make promises, and try not to break them. Isn't that what life is about? 

Update- I am Back

One of my friends, also a blogger, told me about the "blogging curse," that once you start blogging, thing usually collude to make you stop. Of course, I didn't believe it at that time, but now, after breaking up with my mistress, switching jobs and states, I may have been through hardships, but am happier now, and have learned so much over the past 2 months I stopped blogging. Thank You for all your support and I will keep this blog going, blogging once a day, all year. Of course, with a new view on life, there is also some changes to this blog, outline below. 


  • I have gone ahead, and switched up my orgasm denial style to NO TOUCHING, and learned to savor my aching cock and balls, and reveal in the desire to cum, and NOT giving in. Post coming out soon, however, for now, head to the journal
  • Denial schedules laid out here, everything from teasing to chastity! - Orgasm Denial
  • Learned a lot of new naughty things - Will Post them!
  • I will continue my erotic story - Part 1 here- Psychic Teasing 101: Toy Making - Part 1
  • More to come, thanks for sticking around!

Urethral Sounding

Even among the male orgasm denial community, urethral sounding has never been practiced much. So what is it? Urethral sounding is inserting objects down your urethra, aka. pee hole, and getting pleasure from it. Although pleasure from this particular play varies between various males, it is a huge turn on for any person under orgasm denial. Knowing more about this topic can result in more awareness of the diverse kinky devices out there, and, find what REALLY turns you on.

Now, I could describe how to go about doing urethral sounding, but I have found this site called barkingshaman that explains it much better.